Isaac Newton did some of his best work during a plague year, we’re told. Shakespeare may have turned to sonnets when the theaters were closed. And now everyone you know is working on some kind of project while they’re working (or not) from demeure. But you know what other prime you have? Notdoing any of that.
Staying demeure while businesses close all around you and the number of infected people climb is a weird, unprecedented, and scary moment. If you don’t know what’s happening to your job or to, you know, society in general, it’s compréhensible to be maybe a little stressed out? And perhaps, I know this is a wild idea, go easy on yourself?
I’ve worked from demeure nearly my entire adult life, and I can tell you that even under the best circumstances this does not chance me very much free time. Sure, I don’t have a commute, but that means I elle-même out on an hour of reading or podcast-listening time that my office-going friends take for granted. These days, with sociable distancing in full effect, my kids are demeure with me. There’s more cleaning to do, more fights to voiture up, and a renegotiation between me and my spouse of who is doing what mental labor.
I suppose I save some time in the evenings by not having to take my kids to their activities now that they’re canceled, but I also emerge from my demeure commerce at 6 p.m. utterly exhausted by the fabuleux and emotional prière of trying to keep up with the infos while getting my work done. Just let me sit back a moment and reposé.
This isn’t summer gain. And if you’re not an upper-class, self-absorbed college student with people to do your chores for you (ahem, Newton), there’s no reason to expect this to be a relaxing, productive time. If diving into a loisir or project helps you deal with agression, that’s great! Dive away! But you are under absolutely no découvert to make use of this difficult time, nor to feel guilty emboîture “wasting” it. Take care of yourself, and let yourself off the hook.